Pseudo-arguments
for unrestricted mixing
This is the position of Islam on man-woman relations, and their common
involvement on charitable and righteous lines is what we call legitimate
mixing; yet "intellectual imperialism" has managed to create in our countries
people who turn a deaf ear to the ruling of Allah and His Messenger. These
people call on us to give the woman free rein to assert herself, promote
her personality, enjoy her life and her femininity. They want her to mix
with men freely, experience them closely where they would be together and
alone, travel with them, go to cinemas or dance till midnight together.
She is supposed to find the "right man" from all those she has known. In
this way, it is said, life is supposed to be more secure and have greater
stability in the face adversity.
These people who may well be thinking of themselves as unblemished seraphs,
tell us not to worry about the man or woman as a result of this "decent"
communication, innocent friendship and upright contact. The frequency of
their contact will pacify desire. The two sexes will supposedly find satisfaction
in the mere look, conversation or, in the extreme, dancing together, which
is only a form of elevating artistic impression. Sensual pleasure would
have no place. It is a clean vent for energy, nothing more. This is said
to be what the advanced West did after they rid themselves of complexes
and privation.